Learn how to win

Learn How to Win

Sometimes even the most desirable job tends to be boring for us … It does not matter what particularly you do, what your job is and how much you love it. Any monotonous (and even varied) activity will seem boring to you after a while. It is natural.

We just lose motivation to do what we used to. The main reason for lack of motivation is inner conflict between “I want “and “I have to “. “I want to get an “A” for my English, but I have to write a hateful comparison and contrast essay on Burns’ poetry”. Even if these two terms coincide, it is not for long. The conflict of “I want” and “I have to” is inner personal conflict. However like any other conflict – it is the lesson that gives us an opportunity for self – improvement. The key issue for us now is to find ways how to induce ourselves to do what we should, but find subterfuges not to. Many people live under pressure: they always have to do what situation requires of them and put off the most important. You know the effects of such an attitude. Lost time, missed opportunities are just a few of them. We always choose to do something by rejecting the other options. So we are constantly doing something and at the same time constantly avoid doing something. We should feel the inner need, some kind of its inevitability for our every action. The question is if we can develop this feeling in ourselves? We can if we learn to control our motivation, treat our emotional state very attentively and keep it up. In other words each of us should know the art of self-motivation. For successful self motivation we have to learn how to create a timely and positive feedback with your own feelings, emotions and actions.

The fundamental question in self motivation is “What makes you do it?” Either you are attracted by the attained result or the consequences of your inertia repulse you. By realizing it, you can do everything. You should create an image for yourself (either attracting or repulsive) and allot it with the real qualities: – vividness, vitality, dynamics, and cogency. You should do it fast, combining it with an active inner dialogue. There should be no pause between the action and your intention. If the intention is followed by a phrase “Maybe some other time “, eliminate it on the spot with no hesitation and move forward. When you start doing something, but it takes a long time and a lot of effort, reproduce the image of the result you want to attain. Imagine how you will look and feel after achieving it. Mind that with every effort, you are one step closer to your aim and the aim is approaching you. And it is only your merit. Such approach will help you to complete a research paper, get tutor’s appraisal and continue enjoying your life. Self – motivation always suggests overcoming yourself. It involves the choice and harmonization of “I want ” and “I have to”. This overcoming and harmonization mean your personal growth and development.

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